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Viral Nigerian Lady Who Kept Her Virginity Till Marriage Shares Her Story (Photos)

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A Nigerian lady who promised never to sleep with any man who is not her husband, has shared her story as she finally marries husband.

The lady identified as Ihechi Ebe on Facebook narrated how she was turned down and castigated by several men, because she refused to give her body to them.

Read her story below;

Yes, I have given it to the only man who deserved and worked for it.

Although very painful, but, I am fulfilled because it was my sole desire to do this after marriage.

For those who castigated and doubted, you can rest now.

And for you who called yourself a lover, attempted to rape me to have it by force, God has put you to shame.

Ohhhh, I fought, I fought so hard to keep my vow to God, and I am so fulfilled having succeeded and I thank God for the man I call husband. Four years of patiently waiting isn’t moi moi.

And for you who doubted my virginity and needed a confirmation first before you believe, na mumu dey worry you, a real man believed it without attempting to confirm it and he patiently waited for four years, now, he has got it in its fullness.

You the rapist lover who attempted to take it by force, God done over punish you and you never succeeded, a real man has patiently waited for four years, now, he has got it and made it his customized size. Ntorrrrrrr.

I am not proud, but the truth is that I am blessed among women because I honoured God, and in return God honoured me with my own bone man.

I am also a blessing to my husband, real women are blessings to their husbands. I am a real woman.

Grace in me didn’t just get us married, it gave us job. The oil on my head is excess.

My husband has looked for a job for six good years, and just two weeks to our wedding, God gave him a job at Lagos. Isn’t grace at work?

For those who mocked him that after marriage, he will suffer as a jobless man, and those who castigated me for accepting to marry a jobless man, God has put all of you to shame. What God can’t do not exist.

Congratulations to you honeym.

Thank you Jesus.

My Journey of Life Part 1.

I made a post about my virginity and you all are killing yourselves, well, I don’t know why it’s your headaches, but, you may be fast with killing yourselves, I will gladly come for your burial.

Ohhhh, yes, I am very proud of it and my mum is very proud because it wasn’t easy, in fact, I felt nobody would ever buy the idea of keeping it till marriage, until I met my husband man.

The journey of keeping it started from childhood, my mother nurturing me to be a Rev. Sister, at the age of 7, she led me to receiving first holy communion, after which she informed me of her vow to God to lead me into being a Rev. Sister. But, I never bought the idea, being in love with kids. Hence, my vow to remain a virgin till marriage set in. There comes all my temptations as a single lady.

And to those who feel my post isn’t necessary, only fools eat the glory of God or keep silent when God does wonders.

In search of true love, I met a whole lot of men, both the richest and the poorest, but, my vow was always a problem, as the society is so corrupt to accommodate it.

The very first man I met, didn’t just kick against it, cheated severally, called me names, asked me whether I think he should leave ebe ana agba afa gaba ebe ana aru agwu. He castigated me in several occasions, just because of my refusal for sex. He made two attempts to rape me. The last time, being on my sick bed, but I fought with my last strength. He felt he succeeded and left to tell my best frien, that the thing that’s making my head to be big, he has taken it by force. Within me, I knew he was just being a fool, and I thanked God for saving me, and ended the relationship.

It got to the turn of who called himself a pastor in school, since I wasn’t forthcoming with what he wants, he started having affairs and in my usual manner, I felt I shouldn’t disturb myself since I wasn’t ready to give in either. The relationship still ended with a girl he claimed to be his sister. Na my business? After all, I lost nothing.

The other one who became a custom officer hustled so much for it, but, it’s a no go area, the relationship still ended, and to me, there is someone out there who will respect my vow.

I fought and embarrassed a particular one who felt all his life was in it and felt he would ill talk me into succumbing. Omo, God is better for me than any man. My relationship with him matters most, so, I beat him up to prove that point to him.

Abi legion of Mary brother who got frustrated with my refusal, impregnated another woman. How e take remove anything from my body? I cared less.

One Prince of Delta State said it plain to me that he will never get married to me unless he tastes what he is going into. To me, he was very senseless at that point irrespective of his riches. I let him and his riches go to hell.

They mocked me, castigated my desire, called me names, but like Christ, I was never moved by their spittle.

There is one in particular who bragged to me about how he slept with assorted types of women who are more classy than I am. To him, I would feel bad, but never, it made my heart stronger.

I never came to any social media to make noise, but, I kept believing and trusting God that there is a man out there who will understand and keep this singular quest for me, hence, I wasn’t discouraged.

I can go on and on to recount so many of them, but the real g was somewhere waiting to meet me.

Finally I met my husband man on the 20th day of May, 2017, he promised to make my desire and vow a reality. And indeed he showed how great a man he is.

My husband didn’t marry me on a platter of gold, neither did I.
We went through a whole lots of challenges which would make 99.9% of men end the relationship, but he never did. He would have said, this girl isn’t satisfying my sexual urge, let me push her away, let me go into other women, but he never did such.

He fought so hard to keep me and make me his wife. He promised so with his life. He faced so many castigations, attacks, rejections, yet, he stood steadfast in his promises.

I made him everything to me. Posting his pictures on my wall made many uncomfortable, just as they are castigating my virginity post, they castigated my posting his pictures and criticized it. The same people run up and down disabusing his mind from posting my pictures any time he does, but that never changed anything.

I once had an accommodation problem and couple with him falling ill, he accommodated me. Yet, never took advantage of that. He respected my vow and desire.

When people never saw any sign of pregnancy, they started forming stories, castigation became the order of the day. They said two things are involved, either I am not medically ok, or he isn’t medically ok, if not, why haven’t I been pregnant for the past four years.

To end the challenges around us, some advised that I get pregnant for him and my question always was, how possible would that be considering my vow.

They publicly and privately discussed us and doubted us when we said, we hadn’t done anything yet and we are waiting till after marriage.

They mocked us before us, privately and publicly, I kept calm while praying to God to make this time a reality.

It was our private life, but idle minds made it their public affairs, dragging us up and down.

I remember two girls from my class had a bet with me, that, on my wedding night, I would be embarrassed as it will be confirmed by my husband that I am not what I said I am.

Some said that I am not a woman, that’s why I haven’t been pregnant, I wondered what the society is turning into, why nobody believes us and everybody puts interest in my being pregnant even when I was not yet married.

Each time we planned working towards our settling down, one problem or the other will set in, and the plan would fail. It repeated up to five times.

The last problem we had was in December 2020, I never knew we would reconcile, I felt that was the end of us. Because of so many challenges all over, I kept praying to God to separate us by himself and that if we aren’t for each other, we should never reconcile, but if he is my husband, God should find a way to bring us back to each other.

On my own side, I tried making moves to forget everything about him. I tried to fall in love with another, but, it wasn’t possible. Each time I tried, all about him was in my mind, and tears always rolled down my chicks, falling in love with another wasn’t possible. Moreover, all other men are the same. They wouldn’t respect my vow.

I still met another yeye guy who taught I would fall mugu because he is beginning to see change as money.

He stupidly told me that he needed to confirm my status before he would believe that I am a virgin. That provoked me to consider my love when he came asking for forgiveness.

I let go and accepted him back expressing my fears to him, and he still vowed to make me proud.

The stupid guy started posting pictures of a girl on his status, when I noticed that, I took him for a fool, knowing that my testimony is near.

Today, in all the challenges, difficulties, wahala, turbulent storms, wicked advises he wasn’t shaken by any of them and today he made real his promises.

If he fought so hard to keep his promises to me, why then will I not make it known to the whole world through this media, how a great man he is?

Why shouldn’t I testify of the goodness of God to me.

I urge you all to reach out to this great man and congratulate him for me and stop being envious of what you can never do.

I asked him today, honeym, what if you had tried it after marriage and found out I lied to you, what would you have done? He said, babe, there is no what if. I believed you and I knew that you weren’t deceiving me. If you had done something, I would have known too.

At that point, I remembered how comfortable he was and never suspected my movements.

Honeym, may heavens honour you, may heavens lift you, may heavens prosper you. For this singular act of yours, fulfilling your promises, you shall never know downfall. The God I serve shall keep you above your equals. The love we found in each other will never die. Our home is blessed. God’s favour and blessings will remain ours.
Amen.
I love you honeym.

I don’t care about haters.

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MAN Urges Federal Government to Stop NAFDAC’s Sachet Alcohol Ban, Warns of ₦1.9 Trillion Loss

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The Manufacturers Association of Nigeria has appealed to the Federal Government to restrain the National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control from proceeding with its ban on alcoholic beverages packaged in sachets and small PET bottles, warning of catastrophic economic consequences.

In a statement issued by Director-General Segun Ajayi-Kadir, MAN described NAFDAC’s renewed enforcement action as detrimental to indigenous industrial operators and fundamentally inconsistent with earlier government directives.

The manufacturers’ body emphasized that NAFDAC’s recent move directly contradicts the House of Representatives resolution dated March 14, 2024, which specifically restrained the agency from implementing the punitive ban following comprehensive stakeholder consultations through a public hearing.

“Rather than abiding by the generally agreed resolution, NAFDAC bided its time and chose to rely on a resolution of the Senate that was devoid of the usual stakeholders’ engagement,” Ajayi-Kadir stated, noting that operators now face confusion over conflicting directives from different arms of government.

MAN warned that enforcing the ban would devastate Nigeria’s manufacturing sector, threatening over ₦1.9 trillion in existing investments and triggering the retrenchment of more than 500,000 direct employees alongside approximately five million workers in the indirect value chain.

The association cautioned that the restriction would paradoxically undermine public health by creating market opportunities for illicit, substandard and unregulated products beyond the control of regulatory authorities.

“This is counterproductive as it will open up the market for illicit, sub-standard, and unregulated products. It will lead to an influx of imported alternatives, mostly smuggled. It will deny the government of revenues collectable from the companies,” Ajayi-Kadir declared.

The manufacturers’ group emphasized that alcohol served in sachets by local producers is manufactured under hygienic conditions and certified by regulatory agencies including NAFDAC itself, making the ban particularly contradictory.

MAN also challenged the untested assertion that sachet alcohol drives underage consumption, citing credible and empirical research that contradicts this claim. The industry has independently invested over ₦1 billion in nationwide media campaigns promoting responsible alcohol consumption and discouraging underage abuse.

The association stressed that banning certified products would deny adult consumers with limited budgets access to regulated alcoholic beverages while simultaneously depriving the government of substantial tax revenues.

Food, Beverages and Tobacco Senior Staff Association and National Union of Food, Beverages and Tobacco Employees have joined MAN in opposing the ban, demanding that NAFDAC provide empirical evidence that sachet alcoholic beverages are being consumed by children.

Labor unions have called for the suspension of NAFDAC Director-General Professor Mojisola Adeyeye, accusing her of siding with multinational companies to undermine local manufacturers.

However, NAFDAC has maintained its position, with Adeyeye insisting that enforcement is backed by law following the Senate’s unanimous resolution setting a December 2025 deadline that has now passed.

The NAFDAC chief argued that the proliferation of high-alcohol-content beverages in sachets has made such products easily accessible, affordable and concealable, contributing to widespread misuse and addiction among minors and commercial drivers.

“This public health menace has been linked to increased incidences of domestic violence, road accidents, school dropouts, and social vices across communities,” Adeyeye stated, describing the ban as protective rather than punitive.

In contrast, civil society organization Socio-Economic Rights and Accountability Project has approached the Federal High Court in Lagos seeking injunctive orders to prevent the Federal Government from interfering with NAFDAC’s statutory powers to enforce the ban.

SERAP argues that continued circulation of sachet alcohol violates the National Health Act 2014, the NAFDAC Act and international commitments under the World Health Organization’s Global Strategy to Reduce Harmful Use of Alcohol.

The legal and economic battle over sachet alcohol highlights deeper tensions between public health regulation, economic survival and stakeholder consultation in Nigeria’s policymaking process, with no clear resolution in sight as multiple court cases and regulatory actions unfold simultaneously.

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Shettima: Tinubu’s Reforms Rebuilding Nigeria’s Global Credibility, Restoring International Confidence

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Vice President Kashim Shettima has declared that President Bola Tinubu’s economic reforms are successfully rebuilding Nigeria’s international reputation and restoring global investor confidence that had eroded over years of policy inconsistency.

Speaking at the formal opening of Nigeria House during the 2026 World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland, Shettima emphasized that the establishment of the country’s first sovereign pavilion at the prestigious gathering represents concrete evidence of Nigeria’s renewed seriousness about engaging the global economy.

“Nigeria House is a response to the lapses of the past. It reflects our intention, our seriousness, and above all, it advertises both our readiness and our resolve to take a front-line seat in the discourse of the global economy, not as observers, but as participants with a clear sense of purpose and place,” the Vice President stated.

Shettima explained that the tangible benefits of the Tinubu administration’s challenging but necessary reforms are beginning to materialize, pointing to macroeconomic indicators that demonstrate fundamental improvement in Nigeria’s economic trajectory.

According to the Vice President, Nigeria’s economy expanded by approximately 3.9 percent in 2025, marking the fastest growth rate recorded in over a decade, driven primarily by a resilient non-oil sector that now accounts for roughly 96 percent of gross domestic product.

“Services, agriculture, finance, and technology are expanding, while non-oil revenues now make up nearly three-quarters of government collections, marking a structural shift away from oil dependence,” Shettima noted, adding that this diversification strategy positions Nigeria for sustainable long-term prosperity.

The Vice President revealed that inflation, which stood above 30 percent in late 2024, eased significantly by the conclusion of 2025, while external buffers improved with foreign reserves rising above 45 billion dollars and greater stability emerging in the foreign exchange market.

He emphasized that Nigeria’s decision to open up to the world more deliberately comes at a critical turning point in the country’s economic journey, with reform dividends becoming increasingly visible across multiple sectors.

Minister of Industry, Trade and Investment Dr. Jumoke Oduwole reinforced Shettima’s assessment, stating that Nigeria under the current administration is rebuilding trust, restoring credibility and positioning itself as a global center for wealth creation and strategic partnership.

The minister applauded the Vice President’s support in realizing the historic vision for Nigeria House Davos, describing the project as a demonstration of strong public-private partnership that reflects the rejuvenation of Nigeria’s economy and showcases national pride.

At a separate engagement, Shettima told participants at a high-level panel discussion titled “When Food Becomes Security” that Nigeria, renowned as the African giant, has awakened from its slumber under Tinubu’s dynamic and purposeful leadership.

The Vice President expressed optimism that with ongoing Renewed Hope Agenda reforms, the coming months will witness greater climate adaptation moving from pilot projects to reality, as well as a boom in intra-African trade far beyond the current 10.7 percent baseline.

Speaking at the inaugural convocation ceremony of the Professionals’ Certification Programme at the Presidential Villa in Abuja, Shettima revealed that foreigners now choose to participate in professional training courses in Nigeria, citing this trend as evidence that global confidence in the country is being restored.

“The ongoing reforms of President Tinubu’s administration are beginning to restore the confidence of the global community in Nigeria,” the Vice President stated, emphasizing that transparent procurement practices and institutional strengthening form critical pillars of the reform agenda.

Nigeria House Davos, according to Shettima, represents a deliberate action to consolidate the gains of Tinubu’s economic transformation efforts through high-level engagements targeted at attracting investments in the country’s non-oil sector.

The Vice President stressed that while government can open doors, create frameworks and de-risk environments, only private enterprise can animate growth, scale opportunity and translate policy into productivity, calling on the private sector to drive Nigeria’s economic renaissance.

Upon returning to Abuja from his week-long diplomatic and economic mission that included stops in Guinea-Conakry and Switzerland, Shettima declared that Nigeria has reclaimed a frontline seat in global and regional policy conversations.

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“I Can Decide To Revoke The Land Allocated To Onitsha Main Market And Build A School On It” — Gov Soludo

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Anambra State Governor, Professor Chukwuma Charles Soludo, has sparked fresh controversy after stating that he has the constitutional power to revoke the land allocated to Onitsha Main Market and repurpose it for public use, including building a school. The governor made the remark while addressing market leaders amid the ongoing dispute over the continued Monday sit-at-home observed by traders in the state.
Soludo recently ordered the closure of Onitsha Main Market for one week after traders allegedly complied with sit-at-home directives despite the state government’s ban on such actions. He described the practice as “economic sabotage” and warned that the government would no longer tolerate disruptions to commercial activities in Anambra, one of Nigeria’s major economic hubs.
According to the governor, the Land Use Act empowers the state to revoke land allocations for overriding public interest, adding that affected owners would be compensated and could challenge the compensation in court if dissatisfied. He further warned that shops that remain closed could be sealed, fined, or taken over by the government and reassigned to willing traders.
The decision has generated mixed reactions, with critics accusing the government of punishing ordinary traders and worsening economic hardship, while supporters argue that enforcing a full business week is necessary to restore economic stability and investor confidence in the state. Some lawmakers and stakeholders have also urged the governor to adopt dialogue and caution, citing potential losses and unrest from prolonged market closures.
As tensions continue, the development highlights the broader struggle between government authority, security concerns, and economic survival in the South-East, with Onitsha Main Market—one of West Africa’s largest commercial centres—at the centre of the storm.

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