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“I Won’t Have Married Adesua If I Didn’t Obey God By Ending My First Relationship” – Banky W Opens Up

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Nigerian singer, rapper, actor, entrepreneur, and politician Olubankole Wellington, popularly known by his stage name Banky W has shared his journey on how he met his wife Adesua Etomi and how he ended his first relationship.
Banky W disclosed during an event how God spoke to him after he decided to have his first relationship after enjoying his youth. He shared some instances about how he planned his life from age 20-30. He disclosed that he wouldn’t have married his wife Adesua Etomi if he hadn’t obeyed the voice of God to end his first relationship.

In his words….
“I said to myself by the time I’m 30, I’m going to marry. So I was going to use my 20’s to live like a vagabond, to do anyhow and then when I was about 28 and 29, I would find the person I want to settle down with and at 30 I will marry and I will use two years to enjoy with my wife and then have kids but God had another plan.”

“When I realized I was 32 and I was still living crazy, really reckless and so I started to think about the plan I had before, I said to myself, “Now, I’m 32 it’s time to fixed up”. So at the time, I found somebody that I really got along with very well, and I said to myself, this is the person I’m going to marry. For the first time, I actually took this person to my family and parent, as the person I’m dating, and so on and so forth.”
“But for a few months, I just didn’t really have peace and over the course of a few months, I had three dreams specifically about this situation and God told me in no clear terms, that if I went ahead with my plan, that not only would it bring disaster on myself even the on the person that I was dragging with me, it was not going to work out for us and after I had a third dream.”

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“Port Harcourt Has The Lousiest Men On Planet Earth” — Actress Sarah Martins Recounts How She Slapped A Married Man Who Asked Her For ‘H∞k Up’

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She wrote: ‘’So today, I slapped a married man!

Dear women, is high you start to tam your husbands because…..

Imagine a married man that wore his wedding band, walking up to me today and boldly asking for my phone number for us to h∞k up and have fun not minding if I’m married or not.

Normally I would have ignored him and entered my car but the moment I heard “let’s h∞k up and have fun” the right answer was the resounding slap he received from me on a hot afternoon!”

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Is Love Without Billing Possible In Southern Nigeria? —Reno Omokri

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I can understand why Moses Bliss married a Ghanaian. I have been to Ghana, and their women tend to be easier to relate with than many Southern Nigerian women. In fact, is love without billing still possible in Southern Nigeria? In our part of the world, ‘He is loving’ means ‘He is spending’. When you tell many Southern Nigerian girls, ‘I love you’, they hear, ‘You owe me’. Especially those with Industrial Money Obtainer culture. If you marry the Industrial Money Obtainers, I pity you. The billing will become industrial. You will look after her and her entire family. No capping. And better not expect gratitude. In their eyes, you are doing your duty.

If Nigeria had visa-free or visa-on-arrival access to more countries, there would be an epidemic of unmarried women in Nigeria. Because when Southern Nigerian men travel within Africa and outside Africa and encounter beautiful women who are not money conscious, they quickly lose their appetite for Nigerian women. Already, Nigerian men are considered a catch by South African and Kenyan women.

We urgently need a cultural reorientation amongst our women. Especially in Southern Nigeria. The monetisation of relationships in Southern Nigeria is just too suffocating. I am well-traveled, and I am yet to see the level of commercialisation of romance I have seen in Southern Nigeria. I call it as I see it!

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What Men Want To Do To You Is Always On Their Mind. Appreciate The Man Who Actually Opens Up To You About A Bad Habit Or Character Of Yours — Kenneth Okonkwo Tells Ladies

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He wrote: “What men want to do to you is always on their mind. Appreciate the man who actually opens up to you about the things that you are doing that he doesn’t like.”

“That man loves you. Most men simply place you where they think you belong, and this is why stories of, “I was there with him from day one but he left me and married someone else” abounds.”

“Yes, you stayed. Yes, you made a few sacrifices for him. The problem was that, you were not willing to change certain habits and character that he complained about. Sometimes this is the reason why men quietly leave you.”

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