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I Was Raped By An Ex-Boyfriend And A Spiritual Leader – BamBam

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Big Brother Naija star, Bamike popularly known as BamBam, has also revealed that she was raped by her ex-boyfriend and a spiritual leader.

This is coming in the wake of the rape saga between Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA) and singer Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola.

Read what she wrote below:- My heart has been heavy since this rape situation started. Like I feel physical pains in my heart. I’ve been truly sad and have never wished that justice be truly served to these heartless! insensitive! brutal! unrepentant rapists!!! Cos I have been there, I know what it does to the mind and self esteem of the victim.

It was with an ex boyfriend and a spiritual leader I trusted. Took me meeting another man who saw me for me before I healed completely. Sadly I couldn’t end up with him, but God used him.

Be kind to women, some men have been raped too. Truly be kind to people, you don’t know what true love and true transfer of kindness love and light can do to another person. I’m in tears as I type cos it hurts really bad just remembering and knowing how victims feel.

Cos when you take the body of another without their consent you mentally scar them too! Yo! I trust God and want to trust the law to do the needful!

I tried not to relate this to my personal self but when you hear experiences you lived, you become restless, memories hunt you. I have been refreshing all the updates on the movement/protest for tomorrow.

Something in my head keeps ringing would justice be served this time? Another is hoping and praying that it is truly SERVED rightly! I cannot overemphasize how a win for Busola will be victory for all!

Lord help us all.

Such a sick perverted generation.

For the longest I didn’t realise I haven’t fully healed and mentally/emotionally dealt with what those events did to me. I repressed them. Repressed the memories shared with no one.

It’s important to surround yourself with kind people who listen and understand you. It helps to heal properly. And please don’t repress, prayerfully talk to the right people.

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Every girl needs you in their life” – Sharon Ooja pens touching note to Bisola Aiyeola for redefining friendship

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July 5, 2024

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Nollywood actress and newly married Sharon Ooja has penned a touching note to her bestfriend and colleague, Bisola Aiyeola

In a lengthy post on her Instagram page, she stated that every lady needs a friend like Bisola in their life as she described her as a friend after her own heart.

Affirming her love for her, she appreciated Bisola for all she did for her during her wedding and for sticking close to her. Calling her a sister and best friend, she stated that she is strong because of her

She noted how Bisola always knew where her head was without asking her and appreciated her for helping her redefine friendship.

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Drama as Toyin Abraham Reportedly Arrests X user who wished Death on her son for Cyber Bullying

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July 1, 2024

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Nollywood actress Toyin Abraham Ajeyemi has reportedly arrested a X user, who wished death on her son for cyber bullying and defamation.

The movie star, who has been dragged mercilessly for supporting President Tinubu during the General election, has reportedly arrested the X user who cyber bullied and defamed her.

According to a source, identified as Reedah, who is close to the Twitter user, she had his mother that the X user has been arrested since 4 days ago. She revealed that the police came from Lagos to arrest him for cyber bullying Toyin Abraham.

Hello am Reedah and Yarlo is my friend. Heard from his mom he has been arrested since 4 days ago. Heard the police came from Lagos to arrest him. They said he was cyber bullying Toyin Abraham. Pls any help you can render will deeply appreciate you”, the message reads.

Before his arrest, the X user while trading words with Toyin had told her to use him as scapegoat as he wished death on her son.

He tweeted, “So na you Dem promise good governance on behalf of Nigeria? Onijere seh. Your son go kpai soon”.

He added, “Use me as first scapegoat” and Toyin Abraham had responded promising to use him as one. She replied, “Okay then since you say I should use you, then your wish is my command”.

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The Oga wife that I am” – Lanre Gentry wife brags days after shading Mercy Aigbe

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June 22, 2024

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Nollywood actress Mercy Aigbe Adeoti’s ex husband, Lanre Gentry’s wife, Busayo Gentry has bragged online about her stand days after her husband called out his ex wife.

Busayo Gentry took to her Instagram page to share a video of herself getting ready for an event. The mother of one was displaying how beautiful she was in the outfit.

She also made it known that she is the oga’s wife while asking her fans to judge her beauty.

Busayo Gentry took to her Instagram page to share a video of herself getting ready for an event. The mother of one was displaying how beautiful she was in the outfit.

She also made it known that she is the oga’s wife while asking her fans to judge her beauty.

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